this is legit like me leaving all my doors unlocked in my car with the keys in the ignition and having it stolen, then saying it’s not my fault when it’s stolen.
sure, someone shouldn’t be going around stealing, but it still fucking happens and it’s on you to take the necessary steps to prevent this.
This instance is the perfect example of not being responsible and forward thinking.
hmm thats funny i didn’t see the words rape me anywhere on their bodies. just because a girl dresses provocative and wants to have sex doesn’t mean they want to be raped by someone they dont desire. Are guys really that fucking low and disgusting that they can’t be expected to control themselves even in the slightest? That is such a bullshit assertion. That seeing a woman dressed provocatively gives a man the right to rape. You are so wrong.
Ok… Hold on maaaaaybe you misinterpreted my reason for reblogging.
This is what we call being stupid. You do not dress like this, especially if you don’t want attention, and especially if you don’t want to be misrepresented as ready and willing.
Should guys take this as the call for open season? Hell no, of course not. Like in the persons analogy above, everyone knows it’s wrong to steal, but some idiots still do it. The point is, take the measures to make yourself less of a target… Take the keys out of your car, and roll up the windows, maybe then your car will be over looked.
But since you said I’m wrong, isn’t writing “fuck me” on your stomach consent to all literate people? Lol. I mean really. That is the stupidest thing in the world, especially if you’re at a party with the logically impaired drunk morons of the world. This is the equivalent of a “kick me” sign on a kids back in grade school, most people will just laugh, but some asshole will be the one to kick the kid.
Yeah okay i see your point. Keep blaming the victim over the rapist. Thats a good strategy.
I’ve taken the liberty to bold and italicize some vital information you may have missed in your hasty reading.
I do not solely blame the victim. Personally, I wish punishment for rape was a bullet in the head, I think PEOPLE who rape are desperate, disgusting, dysfunctional beings. (Notice: I said people because men aren’t the only ones capable of such an act.) Sadly, this will never happen due to the high percentage of false rape accusations, because of many reasons, including the one below.
I went about this post to state that STUPIDITY IS NOT EXCUSABLE.These girls in the picture above have just said to every drunk imbecile at the party: “Come on, I’m ready.” (Notice: I said party and drunk, because the setting and wardrobe of those in the photograph are not typical of a normal gathering, and no one gets dressed like this casually.) A mixture of alcohol, hormones, and provocative clothing tends to give off a lot of gray area.
On one hand, you’ve got a drunk moron, who is more than likely willing to do just about anything, and on the other, you’ve got another potentially drunk moron with “fuck me” written on her, who may (at the time) be willing to do anything. Well, when they both wake up and the girl has decided she made a horrible mistake, why should she be able to call rape, and get off with not so much as a little blame on herself, and the guy be in jail? She shouldn’t, because she was being as big of an idiot as the guy!
Or, if that still hasn’t convince you, before she was dressed painted, and boozed up, why didn’t she think: “Hmm, maybe I shouldn’t go out dressed as a whore, someone might actually think I am a whore!” At least then there wouldn’t be the broadcasting of sexuality all over the place, in turn, decreasing the chances of her being at the receiving end of poor decisions her part, or the target of choice for some other idiot.
Personal responsibility, and forward thinking. The best ways to decrease rape.
No i get it. youre still victim blaming. you can explain it again if that will make you feel better.
Yep, guess so. Maybe my standards for how people should conduct themselves are too high and people should actually be free to trot around naked, looking like the whores straight from Sodom, and acting like it too, without them actually having to live up to the result of their own actions.
Sorry. I guess that I’m too far out for believing that people could actually be responsible for their own protection, and we should just kill and jail every single man that has ever came on too strong, maybe copped a feel at a crowded bar or party, or even spoke to theses whorish appearing women; because in the end writing “fuck me” on their bodies to go to an event doesn’t mean they want attention at all. I mean, heaven forbid, someone may mistake that as being an invitation to try!
You’re counter-argument explaining exactly how I blame the victim and why I am wrong, and the solution you see fit, was sooooooo compelling. Wow. Thanks for your enlightening ways, simpleton.
No, listen, tumblr user aconservativereality. Get up and out of your pre-conceived notions of rape and try to listen to this point, which several people have tried explaining to you. Open your mind.
RAPE IS NEVER THE VICTIM’S FAULT. If you want to know how, here is how: rape is the direct product of a SINGLE action, and that is the act of rape, stemming from the aggressor. The only action that makes rape rape is the will of the rapist. Rape cannot happen if a woman is alone in an abandoned city where there are no men, it doesn’t matter if she is completely NAKED and tattooed in arrows and “fuck me”s. No one else is to blame. The only person who is to blame when a man decides to rape a woman, is the man, because he DECIDED to rape the woman. The only direct reason rape HAPPENS is because men DECIDE to rape, there is no other direct reason, and there is no other viable or feasible INDIRECT reason either, because it is NOT a man’s NATURE to LOSE CONTROL like a furious ANIMAL and have relations with someone FORCIBLY when that person has not directly consented to those INDIVIDUAL RELATIONS.
I’m not sure whether you’re understanding this point or not, but, with this in mind, do you still believe the BEST way to decrease rape is women being more “responsible” and “thinking to the future” ? Under your logic, if rape truly was inevitable in a male’s nature, this would definitely be the best way of decreasing rape, even if not considerably. But that is far from the truth, because rape is NOT inevitable in a man’s nature.
Rape culture is taught, male supremacy is planted in the subconscious mind of every single male child, and the patriarchy has been imposed and institutionalized for centuries, if not millennia. This is FACT. Educate yourself, realize that rape is truly a product of men being indoctrinated with male supremacy and the patriarchy. In a study done by the Bureau of Justice Statistics, it was found that about 91% of rape victims were female, and 99% of rapists were male.
Now, with the fact that 99% of rape stems from males, and this is most likely a product of male supremacy in mind, what is truly the best way of decreasing rape? Awareness. Rape education, sex education, etc. Teach a boy from his youth (AS GIRLS ARE TAUGHT TO FEAR RAPE AND TO BE “RESPONSIBLE” AND TO “THINK FORWARD” FROM 4, 5, 6 YEARS OLD) that rape is WRONG and HURTFUL, instead of subtly promoting rape culture in behaviors such as influencing children into believing sex is the essential core of masculinity, encouraging young boys into thinking that many girlfriends is a positive notion (a common practice that objectifies women and teaches young boys to objectify women from such an age) etc.
It is a very serious problem, and i hope this message raises awareness on how the patriarchy and rape culture are connected.
Also, one last point. If a man was shirtless and in booty shorts and he had an arrow drawn pointing down towards his ass that said “fuck me” or an arrow drawn down towards his penis saying “it ain’t gonna suck itself” or “blow here” and he went to a party dressed like this, everyone would laugh and it would be the greatest joke. But when a woman does it, it is used to justify rape. You would expect everybody at the party to get a kick out of the guys “witty” sexual humor, what you wouldn’t expect or hope for would be for that guy to get violently anally raped in some dark room at that party, or for someone to beat him and hold him down while they performed oral sex against his consent. The only example that comes to mind is a group of largely unattractive women whom the man is unwilling to have relations with, AKA fat, acne ridden, and hairy. It sucks so bad that a group of unattractive girls raping a guy is the only concept i can think of that is truly parallel to a group of strong, scary men raping a girl, on a social level.
I’m sorry, too busy rolling on the ground laughing my ass off at you.
At first I was thinking this was going to be a logical conversation, one that deceptive perception could not have, until you said patriarchy.